How the Will Smith vs Chris Rock Situation Should have Gone Down
Guess today is the day for masculinity accounts to commentate on the cuck vs alpha dynamics of defending your wife at a Hollywood award show after she fucked a younger man I don't really have a take on this. Because any man with self-respect would not be sitting by her side in the first place.
It's all over social media. There's funny memes. There's jokes. There's "inter-gender social dynamics" takes. They're all wasting their time. Why? Because it never should have reached this point.
Jada, Will Smith's wife, cheated on him with some younger dude a couple years ago. I don't recall the specifics but it doesn't matter. All that matters is that she cheated, used women logic to defend her actions, and never showed any signs of remorse or regret. Bold move Jada.
You can't defend her honor, if she doesn't have any left.
So no man should ever hit another man because he disrespected his cheating wife. I can't believe I have to type this out.
If she cheats on you, you gotta move on. Any man with self-respect will move on instantly.
Now let's talk about the difference between a man who would move on and a man who would stay in this situation
If you haven’t been hitting the gym, eating good and taking care of yourself, you may lack self-respect. If you let yourself go and aren't attracting other girls into your life, you might stay in the doomed relationship. If you play video games all day instead of pursuing meaningful real life hobbies, you would feel trapped in the relationship.
Bottom line: if you are getting complacent and not trying to be a high value man, then you're the dependent one of the relationship. You're practically begging your girl to cheat on you.
But if you keep yourself in peak physical condition, have friends keeping you in line, and have interesting hobbies to fall back on, then you will have self-respect. You understand your worth. In fact, you probably get hit on by girls all the time. So the moment your girl disrespects you by cheating on you, you begin to look at your options.
Guy #1 doesn't have any options, so he stays. He thinks about what he did wrong to cause his girl to cheat. This is because of the social conditioning that will convince guys that whenever a girl cheats, its because he did something wrong. And maybe he did, but that doesn't mean you need to stay in the relationship.
This is why it's essential that you continue to push yourself, even after you've married or get a girlfriend. You CANNOT let yourself get complacent. This is the downfall of most men. Just beause you got married, it doesn't give you the right to stop trying. That's how you end up in a sexless marriage.
Guy #2 breaks it off with his girl. Maybe he gets a divorce. (Hopefully he has a prenup.) He goes out with his friends and leans on them, his support network. He hits the gym more often and with greater intensity. And he probably already has a girl that has shown interest. A girl that he's ignored because he was in a committed relationship.
He moves on with his life. He struggles for a bit. He misses her and his ego is hurt. But he moves on. He has friends to lean on, the gym to keep him busy and a mission to focus on. This man will quickly get past this. He will do so with self-respect and class.
This man won't get dragged into petty fights with his girl. He won't let her turn the situation around on him. He won't get embarrassed. He will move on with his life and meet a new girl.
And then this man never punches a guy for making a joke. Because he's not holding back years of anger and resentment. He's out there living a happy and fulfilling life.
This is a situation that should never have happened.
If you enjoyed this article, then you'll love the private group for highly motivated men. Click here to apply for membership.
Find brotherhood in The Spartan Tribe!
The handbook for young men everywhere who are lost and need direction and guidance in life.
It is never too late to change your life. What can you do today to improve yourself?
This book will
- Help you create your life mission
- Understand red flags in women
- Develop healthy habits
- Gain self-confidence
- Become a more interesting man
- Live a life of excellence
Challenge yourself by reading this book and implement its advice into your own life. I have 20 steps here for the modern man to make meaningful changes to his life as well as details about how to take these steps and put them into action.
Change your mindset. Change your life.
Society needs warriors to step up.
This is the Private Telegram Channel for Motivated Men who Embrace Traditional Masculinity.
You wouldn't go to war by yourself, so why do you attack your life by yourself?
You need a support network of strong and motivated men that can help you.
By forming a tribe of men, a brotherhood, you will be inspired to live up to the standards that these men set forth in their own lives. A rising tide lifts all ships.
These men will keep you strong when life can make you feel weak. These men will serve as a powerful network of references, opportunities and collaborators.
These men will hold you accountable and assure you stay on the right path.
What's Included in the Spartan Tribe?
A newfound brotherhood with access to this exclusive men's club
A complimentary copy of Reclaim Your Manhood
Access to a network of highly motivated men that share tips and advice
A complimentary copy of The Warrior's Mindset
The Premium Path To Manliness Newsletter
Monthly Group Zoom calls
What do we talk about here?
Well, masculinity for starters. Fitness. Money and ideas for making money. Most importantly, this will be a high energy group of people that you can depend on for inspiration, motivation and advice. While most of your friends are complaining about missing their sports or gaming all day, this will be a group for real players in the world. Do not join if you are only going to talk baseball stats or the latest video game.
Discover how you can improve your lifestyle by building a side-income
Become stronger, healthier and more motivated with better routines
Network with like-minded individuals and form your own band of brothers
Deprogram yourself from feminized society and embrace your masculinity
When I think of the most interesting people I know, it’s not the hyper-specialized experts in one field. It’s the people who find a unique juxtaposition of different walks of life. I’m drawn to those who can be both physically fit and intelligent enough to write. Two skills that are not that common alone but uniquely rare when found in the same person.